[ Marriage & Divorce ] Open Question : I think my wife is thinking about another man During intimacy.?
Lately I've been noticing some strange behavior from my wife while we're being intimate... Before I explain, let me say this.. My wife and I have been married for 8 years, and for 5 years before that, we dated... According to her, I'm the only man she's been with since we started dating... First of all, there is this man who she works with / friends with... This man hangs out with my wife, and goes places with her and the rest of their friends from work... This Guy text messages my wife.. Calls her from time to time and invites her places... It bothers me how good of friends she is with him but I don't let her realize it's bothering me.. Recently I decided to get my hair cut shorter than I normally do, when I returned home, I asked her if she liked it... First she said she didn't like it that much, and likes my hair a little longer... But then she changed her opinion and said " Well, Ryan keeps his hair like that, so it's not so bad"... I said " What's Ryan's hair have to do with you changing your mind?" she goes " Well I'm just saying, Ryan keeps his hair styled like that so..." Then the other night, while we were getting busy, intimately... She stopped and asked me if I would say somethings to her while having sex? I said " Sure ".. She asked me to say things like " I've been watching you for a long time"? and " Its about time you gave this to me".. Generally making me say things about having watched her and wanted her... So I said these things and she got really turned on by it?
Bottom line is, I know my wife thinks the world of her Friend Ryan, she always talks about how funny / creative / good friend he is... He also has a girlfriend which helps... But by the sounds of it, do you think she was thinking about him while we were in bed? And why would my wife suddenly like my hair when she remembers her friend has the same style?
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