[ Marriage & Divorce ] Open Question : my husband of 22 years has cheated on me twice. I can't take it. I love him and want to stay with him BUT?

He is ripping me up inside. He won't tell me who the woman he slept with years ago is, only that she is a friend of mine and she is no longer in the picture. I still want to know. Also, he told me this time last year and he didn't really love me anymore, he was in love with another married woman. Completely heart breaking. I've lost tons of weight, i run and eat right, look pretty good (with clothes on) and I'm fun! I guess, I'd like to get even with him just once but I really don't think it' sin me to do that. He says that the sex he had was just sex, no big deal, like playing golf and I read too much into it. I know he is just trying to downplay the devastation he created. Anyway, thought of cheating back>

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