[ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting ] Open Question : should i keep the father of my unborn child informed about whats going on with the pregnancy?
im newly pregnant and me and my ex bf broke up about a month ago and i just found out that in pregnant like a week and a haft ago. i called and told him i was pregnant and he was like "its not mine" then i was like ok i will pay for the DNA test. he was just saying that because he knows darn well its his. anyways we had a very bad brake up. he begged me to come back for the first few weeks; even asked me to marry him. then out of know where i get a massage on facebook from is other baby mama....she was like "u should ask him how he has been sleeping with since u left" so of course i was really up set and hurt because this whole time he was telling me he loved and missed me! anyways it was like 3 days later when i found out i was pregnant. after i when to the health department and had the pregnancy medically confirmed i called him and told him. i evan sent him a copy of the paper from the health department. he called my best friend and talked to her a long time about what was going on. then he called me and was nice until i explained to him that just because i am pregnant that does not meant that i want to get back together. i don't think he liked that because then he said " i don't want anything to do with u or the baby; stop calling me and stop F*@&ing up my life" ok to the point i know his heart and i know that he will regret that statement later so now like when i get a dr. apt i text him and tell him the time and place and any other updates about the pregnancy. i feel that this is the right thing to do. i don't try to have a conversation with him because i know that will just end up with me being upset i just let him know whats going on. should i keep him informed?
also he has his other baby mama in his ear (they are really close they talk everyday about everything) she is 11 years older then him and makes a lot of money so she still kinda Controls him! also she does not want him but doesn't want anyone Else to have him either and he is not the only one with a childed to "hang over his head" any more and shes not happy about it!
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